One of the first things I did once I arrived was to look for a volleyball team/club I could play with. This was not very hard because my university has one and I got a paper from orientation telling me all about it. I really had no idea what to expect when I showed up. It was a lovely 30 minute walk from my house, so I had a lot of time to freak myself out about the whole situation.
So when I got there I noticed two nets and saw that the girls and boys played separately. I thought it was going to be co-ed, which I was super excited about, but I was still just excited to play volleyball. Volleyball is a pretty popular sport here (fun fact: field hockey is one of the most popular sports here, for men and women.) and I assumed it would be pretty good volleyball considering everyones age as well. I started warming up with a partner and she was pretty good, so I was excited. I was really hoping volleyball would work out because I has been a really big part of my life for the past 6 years, but as the practice went on I realized no one really knew how to play. The first practice I was there, no one spoke to me either. It was not that they were mean, but they also were not friendly. I kept looking over at the boys because they were playing at the caliber I am used to playing.
Even though it was not what I expected I kept going back for about 2 weeks. Over time the girls started talking to me more, but it was really hard to communicate during plays. It was partly due to the language barrier because I was not sure what words they used for sports. The other part was, they were playing at a level that did not require much communication, so I also was not sure what to say. Every time I went I kept looking over at what the boys were doing and wishing that I could play with them. After two weeks I decided that I was either gonna play with the boys or not play at all. I love volleyball, but playing at that level, honestly, just made me sad. Every time I would play, I would just miss my team even more and not be able to enjoy my time playing volleyball. I asked the coach if I was able to play with the boys and unfortunately I got a no. So I decided to stop going because it wasn’t making me a better player and it was making me sad, as well. I was sad that volleyball did not work out, but I found something else I love here! But that topic is for another blog.
Emilee Pierson